After Dave Grohl broke the news via Instagram, a source revealed to PEOPLE that his wife of 21 years is focusing on herself and children.

"She was shocked when she found out about the baby," another Blum friend recently told PEOPLE. "Her friends are like family, and they rallied around her." Before Grohl announced h

“It’s been rough for her. Her mind is not on her marriage though. She doesn’t trust Dave. She’s not wearing her wedding ring,” the insider added. “She’s leaning on a group of girlfriends. She feels lucky to be surrounded by love and support.”

Dave previously said he’s “doing everything” he can to earn the forgiveness of his wife and three daughters after welcoming a new baby with another woman.

Foo Fighters frontman Dave Grohl has reportedly shifted his focus from his career to his family, working hard to prove his commitment to Jordyn Blum

Jordyn Blum is facing an incredibly tough time, both emotionally and mentally, as her husband’s actions have put her in an extremely difficult situation. Dave Grohl’s public admission of infidelity, along with the revelation that he fathered a child outside their marriage,